No I am not about to pity you - I think you've gotten enough of that from your own self. But neither am I here to condemn you. I just want you to wake up. Wake up from the horrible dream you are prolonging for yourself.

No you don't need anyone to help you. It's just between you and God. Don't go off into this snivelling slump, and get her to pat you on the back and tell you it'll be okay with both of you together. No it is not okay, and things will never be okay if you don't get it sorted out.

Snap out of it la bro.

Stand up.